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“Oh you..” *smile* *smile*
*internally kicking them*
Nothing, Ill just keep being myself. Why would someone make fun of that tho?
Ignore them. Their opinion of me will never trump my opinion of me.
Depends on who/where. If I can, I might insult them back: If they can dish it out, they can certainly take it too. Most of the time I just shrug and ignore them, though. If they’re that narrow-minded or let their insecurities go out over others, they’re not someone I want to keep around and waste energy on anyway.
Stop hanging out with them?
Their poking comes from a place of insecurity and jealousy. I’d openly embrace it for the strength it is, thank them without embarrassment, and move on.
Give them the weird look side-eye and walk away from them.
Fuck their opinion.
It’s like Keeley on Ted Lasso when she buys a pink rainbow unicorn notebook and Rebecca makes fun of it, she just goes “fuck off, it’s adorable”. I like feminine sparkly cutesy girly shit, if you don’t like it you can go suck a dick.
Time to act extra feminine.
be weirded out, bcs why would someone make fun of a WOMAN being womanly? if it’s a girl making fun of me, i’d feel pity for her bcs she’s obviously insecure or has internalised misogyny.
Eat their limbs
If it’s not a random stranger, start a speech about how his comment is wrong and explaining why is stems from ignorance and explaining with examples how he should embrace his « feminine » (what is socially seen as) side.
Generally be shocked that they picked up on it at all, I don’t exude any amount of femininity like at all so after the initial shock wears off, I would assume they are making generalizations and move on with my life.
Either laugh along or ignore them.
Depends on the person and context of their remarks.
I’ve always been a “girly girl,” so if someone made fun of my feminine side they’d really be making fun of all of me. I wouldn’t entertain someone like that.
I’ve had this happen before. I just said “well…I’m not a fucking lumberjack”
“Makes fun of the feminine side of you”? What does that mean? That’s too vague.