How to keep the Cum inside my vagina?

32F trying to get pregnant again. First time got pregnant very quickly. Just started trying for another. Every time he cums in me it seems to all leak out rather quickly. If we are in missionary he will cum and it will like eject back out like a volcano. In doggy style it will stay in for a few seconds then it will run out and drip. Last night we tried overpass position, he cumed pulled out and it shot out hitting me in the face, I love a good cumshot on my face but this caught me off guard. I know his load size is obviously rather large but how do I keep more of it inside my vagina?

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  1. Menstrual cup. Or even cervical cap (ironically).

    If you’re really, really trying, could even cum into the cup or the cap, and then you could insert it – less opportunity for the cum to leak out.

  2. Getting pregnant is not about sex positions. In your case, the fact that Women lose 90 per cent of the eggs in their ovaries before the age of 30 has more to do with your problem.

    Furthermore, the quality of ovarian eggs also deteriorates over time thereafter, increasing the difficulty of conception and the risk of having an unhealthy baby.

  3. Your difficulty conceiving is not a result of cum leaking out. Look into ovulation tracking, and make sure you’re having sex on the days when you can get pregnant. If you’ve been trying to conceive for more than 12 months, you should consult with a fertility expert.

  4. Missionary and have him stay in you and just lay there for a few minutes. It’s nice and intimate and stops the cum from leaking straight out. But honestly, keeping it in longer doesn’t necessarily increase your chances. Relax and have fun, have sex often, take your vitamins, eat well drink water and all that and you should have luck. If it’s only been a few months since you’ve started trying them I wouldn’t stress about it.

  5. Put your feet up in the air after he cums in you. I used the technique for both pregnancies and it worked! My kids are only a year apart

  6. There’s a difference between semen and sperm. More often than not, most of what is dripping out is semen.

  7. Certain cough medicines that break up mucus are sometimes used by couples to facilitate pregnancy. This was advised to a friend who had gone to a fertility clinic. The cervix has a mucus covering, and using cough medicine thins the mucus, helping the sperm cells travel into the uterus. Ask your doctor. I’m not sure which brand she used, but she was pregnant soon after.

    As someone said below, you take the cough syrup by mouth, not in the vagina! But don’t try this w/o consulting your doctor.

  8. Do you have an app to track your ovulation window ?

    If you’re having trouble conceiving, just remember that the sperm is often the issue. Have him go to a doctor to have his sperm checked.

    Secondly- you should have an up to date Pap smear as well as look into a transvaginal ultrasound& ultrasound. This will be able to see any obvious irregularities in your cervix, uterus and ovaries. Some times endometriosis and PCOS can make it difficult or impossible to get pregnant on your own.

    His entire load doesn’t need to sit inside you for you to become pregnant. There will still be residual sperm inside of you swimming through your cervical mucus. It only takes one of them to impregnate you.

  9. My daughter had her baby 3 days ago after going through the throes of infertility. Trying most of the things. Suggested here. 5 years later success was achieved with IVF and a healthy baby girl was born.

  10. The liquid is not the sperm. When the liquid leaks out, the sperm usually is already inside you. What we know as ‘cum’ is a liquid that is used to transport the sperm inside the vagina. Also it has higher PH, which makes the acidic vagina less acidic, and more suitable for sperm to survive.

    So, cum leaking out should pose no problem in getting pregnant.

  11. Go on holidays near your ovulation dates normally rest and relaxation on holidays cures all.positions

  12. It only takes one sperm cell. When you think it all drained out there are still thousands swimming toward the egg.

  13. Orgasming actually helps your body/cervix to suck in the cum. You don’t need a lot of it obviously. So maybe continue playing after he cums. Use toys or whatever you need. Pound/suck it in there reaaall good.

    Otherwise I recommend to listen to the Batman advise.
    You have to assert your dominance.

  14. Get fucked, take a creampie, walk on your hands for the next 12 hours.

    Done.

    Just kidding, I wish you luck. 🍀

  15. ‘He cumed pulled out and it shot out hitting me in face’.

    There’s at least one of your problems. He’s supposed to cum inside you. Not pull out at the crucial moment.

  16. It’s actually a myth that having your legs up helps conceive, the best way to try to conceive naturally is by putting no stress on it. Keeping the cum inside you has no benefits, all it does it increase your chances of UTI. As always, go pee straight after sex. The sperm that is off to find the egg has already gone on it’s journey, the ‘stuff’ that comes out after sex is absolutely fine to come out, trying to keep it in doesn’t increase your chances

    Try to keep an eye on when you ovulate (use a period tracker if you don’t know when this is for you) and have sex every other day during this window

    For a lot of people, sex every few days all month is what works best. No pressure, no tracking, just enjoying each others company. It’ll happen when it’s meant to happen

  17. You’re over 30 and it’s still very much possible, but it’s not unusual to have some problems conceiving but your problems are not caused by cum leaking out… see a doctor and figure out what could be causing the problems

  18. I got pregnant when I laid around for a while on my back. Maybe 10 mins but then make sure to go pee so you don’t get a UTI

  19. Even with the fluid leaking out there are still going to be hundreds of thousands swimmers still in your vagina.

  20. This is not a semen quantity issue. There are other factors that affect fertility.

    Others are mentioning the ovulation window. Additionally, being very overweight or underweight will lower your fertility. If you are a normal/healthy weight, don’t exercise too strongly or go on a diet — if your body senses that you’re losing fat, your fertility will drop. If your body senses serious stress, your fertility will drop.

  21. Pillow under butt and stay that way for 10 minutes after he cums. Doc recommended that to me. Took me three years to get pregnant because I got a crooked pelvis or something dumb. Tried this for a week and got pregnant

  22. There could be upwards of 250 million sperm in each ejaculation if your man is healthy.

    How many babies are you planning on making? 🙂

  23. i cannot actually fathom that someone who is legitimately trying to have a whole ass child is asking these questions

  24. Track your ovulation window and make sure to have sex in that window.
    Do your best to orgasm around the same time as him. If possible, have him stay inside you after he cums and use a toy to orgasm a few more times. The muscle contractions pull the sperm further into your body. You could use a menstrual cup or flex disk to keep some inside, just make sure you pee after you insert it. You don’t want a UTI. But even with some leaking out, as long as he is thrusting inside when he cums, there will absolutely be sperm swimming towards the egg regardless of the leaking. I wouldn’t worry too much. You could always talk to a fertility specialist and have his sperm count tested if you’re worried. Also, tell him to wear loose clothes around his balls and stay hydrated. It helps to not let things get overheated.

  25. Out of my 4 pregnancies there was no special action needed, pretty sure once the little swimmers are in there that there’s so many that some are bound to make it to the destination without any special help. It might feel like a lot is leaking out but there’s more that will actually make it to where they need to be. Be sure you’re actually ovulating. ☺️

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