I (36F) have been hooking up with a guy (34,M), we have hooked up maybe 7-8 times now, and I feel he is gradually lasting less every time. He has mentioned how comfortable he is around me, he is very excited when we meet up, and he is very hard the second we start kissing.
We are just hooking up and he doesn’t want anything more, so I’m wondering the fact that he doesn’t last as long is because he doesn’t care to control, or he just can’t?
Some observations: He has mentioned a few times that “you turn me on so much, I’m not sure how long I’m gonna last”. He goes down on me for a good amount of time, so maybe he cares, but If I’m just hooking up with someone I expect the intercourse to last longer so I can get off too.
Please share you experience so I can understand this better.
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How long does it typically last? Is he getting you off as well?
Sex feels good so most men that can control their finish absolutely will. Chances are more than likely he can’t.
How frequently do y’all have sex?
The more comfortable he gets, the less anxiety he feels. Anxiety blocks pleasure, so it’s probably just feeling better and better for him! You can always ask him to slow down and take breaks though.