I’m looking for help to use the right terms for what I’m looking for. It’s extra difficult since I’m still working on that in general.

I’m looking for someone who has some common interests and views to hang out with and do nothing but chill or run to the mountains for a day trip or got to the beach, a concert or drinks.

Someone who will be a friend and lover. Someone who it will be ok to care about and is ok with reciprocating.

Someone who is stable but still likes to be active and have fun

Someone who will understand when life, work or kids have to come first

I am not looking to get remarried
I am not looking for someone to live with
I am not looking for just hookups

Would this be fwb, casual dating or actual bf? I am not necessarily looking for forever, just want to be happy now and actually enjoy the time I’m spending with someone. If it’s only going to last a year, shouldn’t be a good year?!?

3 comments
  1. Not 100% sure but I’d think this is just an open relationship or a normal bf if you don’t want him canoodling with other ppl

  2. You’re looking for a casual (possibly exclusive?) relationship with someone who has no interest in marriage or in growing a relationship past just enjoying time with one another.

    I’m going to guess you’ll have the best luck finding someone looking for this amongst people who are divorced and have responsibilities like children/etc that come first.

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