I want him to feel at home and comfortable the first time he stays over. He said he just wanted to watch movies and chill. I will be making his favorite food and I already bought his favorite dessert. Can you guys give me other ideas how to make his stay more enjoyable? Sex is already a given. Thanks.
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honestly, i think it’s you that he’d appreciate the most!
just be happy, have a good time and I think that’s all he needs 🙂
Cook with each other and bust out a fun board game, my wife n I will have stupid fun playing something like scrabble or battleships
Dominos. Set up a whole bunch of them and let him have the honor of knocking the first one over.
For me, it was pretty special regardless of anything else. I slept with her (just sleep; no hanky-panky yet) against the wall in her bed against a window that wasn’t installed correctly and so collected a puddle of water. Also a full-size bed. So can’t touch the wall or I’m wet, and also don’t want to wake her up.
I didn’t sleep, really. For like a month. But just the closeness was nice.
Also, she had roommates. So what she could do in the rest od the house was limited.
But, like, I really liked her. I wanted to love her. So I stuck it out. Little stuff wqs little stuff. We cuddled and laught and tittered and talked until late at night and it was just very nice.
I kinda feel like if you screw up a little detail or miss one or something a dude runs off, either it was too soon, or fuck *him*. Try again.
It should be *you* that matters here.
That sounds absolutely perfect – he’ll love it.
When you two are more toward falling asleep tell him offhand that your place is haunted but that the ghosts never hurt anyone. Play it off like it’s no big deal and they usually don’t even come out when people are around
dress up for him, aside from that you’ve already gone above and beyond. Alternatively just cook naked…..
Be relaxed
Maybe get him a new Xbox or PS5?
Dress up for him, give him a massage, other than that I think you’re allready doing everything right.
Man, now I wish I wasnt single. I’m really due for a massage!
A2M
Anal.
Don’t forget the drinks! What’s his favorite beer or wine? Get an after dinner drink too, such as a scotch, bourbon or brandy.
Be present and show interest. Anything else is just a massive multiplier.
Sounds like you’ve got it nailed honestly. If he doesn’t appreciate all of that, then his expectations are off the charts. That you’ve even cared enough to put forth all of that effort is likely what will matter the most to him. Lucky guy!
That sounds perfect. Wish I had a gf to hang with like that :X
Good head game
Let him pick the movies/show is about all i got.
First time I spent the weekend at my wife’s I just brought a bag and we of course had sex a lot and then watched a bunch of movies in between. Think it was a bunch of Harry Potter movies honestly, as we both like those
Oh, maybe have some spray in the bathroom. And don’t mention anything if he goes to the bathroom for a while or stinks it up. Having to poop at your new girlfriends place is never fun.
Men are not complicated. What he said he wants to do , is what he wants to do.
Feed and fuck him.
Life is good
have a pair of sweats for him to jump into and leave all that delicious, chick HBA stuff in the shower. we love smelling and using it, the soaps, the shampoos.
Fundamentals- Have a toothbrush for guests.
I don’t know about other guys but if I wake up and she’s wearing just my shirt while making coffee or something, I’ll lay in bed with a huge smile on my face.
Maybe listen to what he says? You’re going over 9000 and he said ‘movie and chill’
It’s not bad to have food and snacks there, but with some things you might just come off too strong
I’m a simple man. If you over-do it I’ll feel like I can’t match your efforts when you’re staying over at my place.