Today my partner and I were having sex and as always, we use condoms (bare skin) however this time I was not fully aroused (he had to spit in it) to make it lubricated and it made me feel like it wasn’t good enough for him. I felt super insecure, because after being intimate for 15 minutes he still couldn’t finish through our vaginal sex like he usually does so he took the condom off and asked me to suck him and I did and then he finished. I feel like he didn’t enjoy it. Any advice/suggestions/opinions? Maybe I’m overthinking? Have any men been through this with their partner and if so did you still enjoy the sex?
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It happened once. Maybe his mind was somewhere else. Maybe he was just tired. It happens. I’m sure you feel the same way the other way around some time, right?
Might be a good idea to pick up a bottle of KY water lubricant. I have this around because it’s better than using soap or only spit to masturbate.
Using the water lube would be much less unappealing then jailhouse lube (spit). Dryness could have been from a number of reasons and sometimes the water works don’t happen.