I (F20) kind of feel it’s hopeless to find someone who isn’t porn sick. Every guy I’ve ever known watches it daily. I just don’t see the appeal? It makes me sick if I watch it every day. I can only watch it every other day tops.
I’d like a relationship where I don’t feel grossed out by a guy using it. I have no problem with masturbation, but when I think of a partner using porn, it just makes me feel sick physically.
Is it possible to find someone who doesn’t use porn? Are there any Reddit groups that have people who are looking to date that don’t use porn?
TLDR; I feel sick when I think of a partner using porn. Is it hopeless to find someone who doesn’t use it? Are there any groups that have people looking to date people like me?
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Welcome to the adult world
Porn can be health and unhealthy aspect in any relationship or persons life in general
Unhealthy that it can expatriates the concept of sex and glorifies the industry but it can be healthy as a way to realise
(If that makes any sense)
There are people who like having a relationship and cut sex altogether, I think there are groups out there thst your looking for and even on dating apps but you have no control on how oftern your SO watches porn, yes I get thr cringe, my husband used to watched porn alot untill he met me, it can also be a age thing?
Communicate with your BF how you feel but note you have no right telling him what he can and cannot do, if this bothers you so much either break up with him or get some counciling
Not hopeless but most guys jackoff to prn