So for background information I have been having sex with the guy who took my virginity me (f20) him (m22), and he’s been so patient and supportive of everything I want to try. The only thing is when he fucks me I can’t really tell if I’m cumming or not there a points where it feels so good but it doesn’t feel like how it feels when I masterbate.
I never really fingered myself before him cause when I do it it doesn’t feel like anything so I would get off in other ways but I just want to know why it doesn’t feel like it usually does.
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You will know when you have an orgasm. You’re not.
Most women do not orgasm from PIV intercourse alone. Some sort of clitoral stimulation is usually required.
There are different types of orgasms. I can come during PIV and it feels good but nothing like a clit orgasm. Clit orgasm feels like the absolute best, most freeing feeling where you can barely breathe.
Most women do not have orgasms from PIV alone. If you (or he) play with your clit while he’s inside you, you are more likely to orgasm. Or you can use a toy while you have sex. You’ll feel yourself contracting around your partner, if that makes sense (or at least that’s how it feels for me).
My masterbation orgasms feel different than orgasms with my boyfriend. Same way my masterbation orgasms with my hand feel different than my masterbation orgasms with my vibrator, and PIV orgasms different than clit stim.
However, I always know if Ive orgasmed. If you don’t know then you probably aren’t but you might be close!
I’d suggest telling him to keep going or maybe try different types of masterbation first so you can see other ways that get you off – then you’ll know how to better direct him 🙂
Get yourself a rose vibrator. You will learn what an orgasm feels like very quickly! Enjoy!