recently had a second date with someone and while making out i asked them what they liked (like playing with hair/scratching/kisses on neck etc). i was talking to my friend about my date and she said that i was way too upfront..? is that the case? i feel like it makes it a lot easier if i know what exactly she wants, idk
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It’s not too up front. It’s always okay to ask what people like and don’t like. But some people can feel shy about answering so be mindful of that. A lot of people will either freeze up or feel put on the spot by saying what they like. If you sense that’s the reaction you’re getting, you can ask a more specific question so they can offer a yes or no instead of having to divulge their secrets on their own. “Can I kiss your neck?” or “Is it okay if I play with your hair?” “Do you like having your back scratched?”