I love to masturbate and finger myself, but I love it more when my boyfriend finger me and eaf me. However, I read that hand jobs to a guy do not really matter since they can also do it themselves.
My foreplay is to rub a guys dick and remove his pants and starts licking his dick and balls.
I’d suck his dick and then I ride on it.
However, I rarely give handjobs. Also I feel like it’s nothing compared my tongue licking and sucking.
I just wonder if it’s really a turn on and should I start doing hand job more?
I understand every guy is different and communication is key, but I want an outside opinions and feedback.
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Yes, for the right handjob.
Personally, I find handjobs to be their own specialty. Whereas sex and blowjobs are about intimacy, handjobs are about focusing all that pleasure solely on his dick. I think it can be more intense and almost more vulnerable in a way.
You can, but its like do you want to just fingner you or eat you out? 🫦🤷🏻♂️
Absolutely, waking up on a weekend to kissing and a handjob is life replenishment
handjob i can get while my girlfriend are i are watching TV. she’ll turn me on and make me hard, then move on to sex
imo you have the right idea that blowjobs / sucking / licking is a much better feeling. but handjobs are cool too if we are on the couch watching tv or in the car or in a bar / club.
so the real advantage of handjobs is not the feeling but the flexibility that you can do it in more places / scenarios than you could a blowjob.
I am a real fan of a nice lubed hand job…
Depends on the experience of the hands. But generally no.
Absolutely hate handjobs and politely turn it down anytime it’s offered. No one’s gonna give me a better handjob than I can give myself.
Handjobs while kissing is the best, you can’t miss them while giving a blowing
I can only speak for my own experience but my ex really enjoyed it, but he also said he usually doesn’t. I don’t know if I do it differently than other women but when i was with him i tended to it it at a quite slow pace, sped up only when i noticed him getting more into it, we usually used oil and even preceded it with a massage sometimes. I never gave him the feeling that it was a chore for me and also asked him his preferences and what felt better. So i think your attitude about it and whether you are enthusiastic is what determines if it will make it a ‘meh’ experience for the man or something enjoyable he will want you to do more often.
If done well with enthusiasm.
Not going to say that handjobs don’t matter but the BJ’s are superior
I actually prefer handjobs over blowjobs. To me I get more stimulation, and it is easier to orgasm.
Handjobs are a staple in our relationship, and what we typically do if we want a quickie, but she isn’t interested in penetration.
Some men are going to love them, some not so much. Ask your partner what they like
Yes, when my wife asks if I want a HJ or a BJ it is a very tough decision for me. I could pleasure myself all I want, but, it always feels much better when she does the wanking.
A great handjob can be a mind blowing experience. However, most women are terrible at giving them. With PIV and oral being options, I think most guys don’t really want to put in the effort to teach a partner how to give a better handjob.
If you go on Pornhub and search for TheMagicMuffin and TheLittleRed you can find examples of amazing handjobs. I would love a partner to give me handjobs like they give, plus maybe some backdoor attention as well.
I only like handjobs when I’m fingering the girl at the same time that’s a turn on. Otherwise I find it awkward.
It’s about how you do it. You can be chilling and decide to give him one to keep him pleasured during whatever you’re doing like watching a movie. Or when your doing foreplay you can use lube and say things like “do you like my little hands around your big cock” things like that. It’s makes foreplay better.