So it happened this way; Recently I reached absolute rock-bottom, and was about to just give up on finding love. When I least expected it, and the exact moment I was going to give up and drink myself unconscious, I get a Facebook message from a girl I had been friends with, she’s just my age, just my type in absolutely every way imaginable, and I had a crush on her 3 months prior. We had talked, but only as friends, and kinda stopped after a week. We started talking, met up a few times, each time making out like wild animals, mutually crazy for each other like magnets, and now we’re officially dating, and agree mutually that we’ll wait for the right moment to have sex since we agree this is special, on *official* date #2, we’re thinking 3.
Basically, we have very similar issues in life, can relate to each other in a loving way that’s therapeutic, and when we have arguments, they aren’t really even arguments, they’re like serious logical discussions, no nastiness, just pointing out things and improving each other tbh, our relationship is extremely productive, and most of all filled with unconditional love, and nothing in this universe would make me want to give it up. I don’t believe in soul mates at all, but this is the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in, I feel loved and refreshed, not stressed like before, and it’s the best thing ever. How can I keep this amazing thing going? I’m open to any advice. Thank you so much for any help.
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Cherish every moment. Keep your perspective. Open and honest communication always. Don’t put off solving problems because you’re afraid of upsetting the relationship. If you really love her, you must know that you would do anything to ensure that she is happy and fulfilled in the relationship. If she really loves you, you must know that she would do the same.
I’ve been there. It’s wonderful. Unfortunately it couldn’t last for me. Wishing you both the very best. Thank you for giving me some hope for the future