Do women have lower libido/sexual interest after masturbation? If a man, for example, masturbates in the morning, he will for sure be less horny for sex with a girl for the entire day. Not saying he will not have sex or that he will not be interested, just that he will certainly be less energetic and less ready for it because he needs to somewhat “recharge”. Is it the same for women?
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Personally..no.
I can masturbate in the morning or any time of day tbh and still be very ready to have sex whenever my husband is good to go.
Not as common as for men but yes, many women have refractory periods that make them “one and done.”
In my experience:
Not all men have long refractory periods. Many do, but not all. Some men can be hard and ready to cum again within minutes. Some can even just keep going and have a second orgasm with no down time.
Most women are able to have multiple orgasms, but not all. Some women have short lull (1-5 minutes) before the next orgasm will start building. Some have zero refractory and are able to begin ramping up to the next peak just as soon as the last one subsides. Some women can vacillate in terms of length of down-time based on the power of the orgasm recently experienced.
Some women are one-and-done.
If my wife has a medium orgasm she can ride that wave and crash straight into the next one and the next. Once she has a giant orgasm she either needs several minutes, or she says she is “done.”
For what is worth, since she is also freeuse for me, when she says she is “done” she can usually have several more orgasms if I decide to keep enjoying her. Her sense of when she is done, or satisfied, has very little to do with whether her body can orgasm again. 🙂
You speak with a lot of authority and confidence on something that you are incorrect about.
Sure, what you say might be true for some guys. But, is completely not true for many guys.
Male and female refractory periods vary a great deal.
Although women are generally thought to have shorter refractory periods, there are indeed some women who need many hours.
Just like there are some men that have a refractory period of minutes.
There is also the concept that the refractory period is not just biological but also environmental as well.
IME personally as a female I have a very short refractory period that is affected by many things. Mostly within in my control.
As a male my partner also has a mostly short refractory period. Assumptions based on either man/woman are not correct at all.
Most women I know are one and done when it comes to clit orgasms.
Vaginal/ g spot orgasms they are multi orgasmic if they can achieve one
Personally for me it’s very short lol. Give me a couple minutes and I’m ready to cum again but my fiancé is amazing and makes me back to back to back until I tell him I can’t anymore 🤣
I’m horny 24/7
Can only cum once every few hours, but always up to have sex and please my guy.
So refractory period absolutely. But it doesn’t impact my desire. Only my physical capabilities.
I’m not really having sex for my orgasm anyway though
i do not, but other may. i can go on for a full day and not get tired of orgasming or have to stop. i can go for multiple and not have to stop also.
Guy here, I’m multi, can do about 5 rounds in one hour, don’t lose my errection till the third round, in-between 1 and 3 it’s mostly the condoms change and time needed to cleanup.
I’m not always in the mood for multiple rounds, the arowsal level, stress level, time of day, make a big difference if I’m in the mood or not.
My wife in her special week wants multiple or enjoys my multi feature.
For the rest of time she is one and done, she gets annoyed if I stay hard after coming and me wanting more.
I don’t personally, I can start working up an orgasm straight after one. Maybe if I have a huge body shaking orgasm where I see god I would probably struggle to get going again, but I think I would rather bask in the glow of the orgasm I just had rather than put the effort into having another right away.
As for ‘being in the mood’ for my boyfriend if I have recently masturbated… I pretty much always would, but he would have to make the first move unless I was having a super horny day. Masturbating gets rid of any very urgent feelings of horniness, but I could easily get going again and would need a lot less foreplay.
The only time I wouldn’t be in the mood after masturbating is if I suddenly got ill or stressed.
Personally, no. I just need about 5 minutes and then I can go again if I’m using my hands only. If I’m using my clit sucker, I can keep going over and over after just several seconds. The more sex I have, the more sex I want to have, I find. I think it’s because I’m thinking about it more.
Mine only lasts a minute or so but my orgasms get stronger if I wait longer