I can’t get/stay hard or come with a condom on.
I don’t think it’s death grip, as if I have sex raw, I get hard, stay hard and come (maybe a bit too quickly sometimes). Everything works well.
But when a condom comes out, I always go soft. If I get hard enough to put it on and get it in, I don’t feel much and go soft. I used calcSD and I have a bit more girth than average, but not huge. I use the larger sized condoms, and latex-free ones, and all the brands that I have access to, but none of it makes any difference, Still can’t stay hard with one on. Tried to masturbate with one on once, but still couldn’t stay hard and couldn’t come no matter how long I took.
I tried using a Viagra once, and it didn’t help much. It must be a mental thing. What can I do?