Basically the the title. Have recently started a sexual relationship and during sex neither of us can achieve orgasm. She has said that she has never been able to even on her own or with partners. I have in the past but it quite difficult and never while using a condom. She cannot use birth control for medical reasons so condoms are a must.
I have had issues with DGS and chronic masterbation in the past but I had hoped this would be different as I have not done it for 3+ weeks.
It’s not a huge issue but she really wants me to be able to finish and feels a bit shit about this. I also would love to make her orgasm but I think it’s maybe a more long running issue.
Has anyone had similar problems and can advise?
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Communicate with each other about what you like, talk about fantasies
Not worrying about it helps me occasionally and just enjoying each other’s body
Let her ride you face until she pops, then let her peg you while you talk dirty to each other. Maybe play some porn in the background OR get an only fans creator to talk you both through some sexy stuff with dildos and vibrators.
Oral sex. See if 69 works. Also, try giving one another oral individually. It can take up to 45 minutes to get a lady to cum from oral, so go slowly and gently to last long enough. And realize that it may take time. In other words, it may take multiple sessions before one or hopefully both of you cum. Be patient. Have fun. And be careful.
Get a Madaam to help you. You need step by step instructions.
When I was coming of age, men refused to wear condoms, because I couldn’t feel very well. Which is why all those women went on birth control, or you spermicide are those little cups are in a whole bunch of various types of birth control. Men refused to have sex with a condom. So it kind of makes sense for you. For her she just needs to experiment with her own body until she finds one works. She’s still young so the truth is she may not hit up on everything that she likes.