Hey folks,
I, M(22), just met a person who fits all the criteria and I want in a SO. She’s confessed she likes me, and actively plans for a future together.
I’m very scared of commitment and getting hurt again. I lost my first love when I was 17 to cancer and since then I’ve been hooking up/dating around but never considered a future.
She’s gonna be moving to another city about 2 hours away in 3 months and then to Europe for her master’s in a year.
I’m afraid of her and know she’s a fit and we’re compatible: we communicate, share interests, values and long term goals.
How do I overcome this fear of getting hurt?
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Are we in therapy? If not, then we should
How long is a teenage relationship going to continue to affect your adult behavior?