21F. So I was just penetrated for the first time by my partner(21F). It was with a 6 inch dildo and we used lube. It wasn’t the worst pain in the world but it was uncomfortable. I just felt like uncomfortably full? my cherry popped( bleed on the towel) so I think i’m not a “virgin” anymore? After i bled from the initial full penetration i only let her fuck on me for like a two three moments before i wanted to stop.
is this a common first time experience? I’ve never had anything that big inside of me before, never even really fingered myself. It didn’t hurt extricating but it was really uncomfortable and just weird feeling. I was anxious. Will it feel better with practice? or is that how it’s gonna feel everytime? because if so I don’t think penetrations for me
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First time sexual experiences are almost always bad. This is because you’re just starting to get to know your body, and what you like and don’t like.
I’d really recommend not using a dildo, especially a large one, for a long while yet. Your partner may enjoy it, and that’s fine. You can definitely use it on her. But wait until you’re more experienced, until you’re closer to knowing what you actually like, before “taking on” a 6 inch dildo.
Well, yes it will get better, plus thats not a small dildo. You said you didn’t really finger yourself so my advice is to just let yourself, enjoy yourself and see what you like and your body. Not every first time is the best, believe me. Good luck :))