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Break it off? Are you not married?
I would never marry someone I’m not sexually compatible with. If their sec drive drastically reduced and I felt like I would be trapped in a sexless marriage then yes. I would ‘break it off’. My partner and I love sex, it’s an excellent, rewarding and beautiful part of our relationship. I still masturbate frequently but I am very satisfied with the sex my man and I have.
If he was no longer able to please me I would become resentful and eventually we would go our separate ways. I will NEVER live with a r/deadbedrooms again.
2-8 times a day. Sex 4-7 times a week. I would redefine what sex meant to me before I left my husband for not being able to keep up with me. As long as he is willing to communicate and shows an effort I’m happy. If he ever stopped caring, then yeah I would divorce him over it.
I do a systems diagnostic check (I am 47) If it wont interfere with our sex life.
For example, my wife went away for a week with her bestie (they have done this once a year for ~30 years). I absolutely rubbed a few out while she was gone. She is back today so I didn’t today or yesterday, that energy is being saved for her.
How is lover not pleasing you?