Im so shy. I always want to initiate sex but when it comes to it, I do not. I also have so many things i want to do but im to scared to say. He makes me feel like what I want to try or find hot, is a no go or scares him?! To the point I dont want even to try but i really want sex and he wont answer me when i ask about his fantasies.
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Honestly, this stuff can do a complete 180 sometimes lol.
My wife used to the the shy timid type, initiating maybe 10% of all sexual moves between us. Now, it’s 50/50 and she’s exploring all of her kinks and fetishes, even ones she thought she’d hate.
So what I’m saying is, you might be shy today but it might not be like that forever
My wife was the shyest person ever when it came to sex. Now we’re swingers. Maybe your person thinks you’re only doing it to please him? Have a conversation in a non sexual environment about this and reaffirm your wants. Make a list!!!