I orgasm but I dont cum

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1. By come do you mean squirting?

2. I’m not understanding your distinction.

3. Most women don’t cum when they orgasm.

   For the people not understanding, there’s a viscous white fluid that *can* come out with orgasm. Or at other times, usually during arousal.

4. Your question is confusing, because “orgasm” and “come/cum” are synonymous.

   If you mean that you don’t produce any ejaculatory fluids, yes, that’s normal. Usually women don’t.

5. Orgasm/cum is the same thing for a woman. Sometimes you might also discharge a lubrication and sometimes not. The fluid is not any indicator of a better or worse orgasm.

6. Idk if this is what you mean but I find most times when I maturbate alone I “finish” but I don’t cum. If I masturbate with a partner/actually have sex, the way that it feels when I finish is different, and I would refer to it was cumming.
   Not sure if this makes sense or is relatable.
   (F 23)

7. Could you please clarify? Are you implying that you have a pulsing orgasm but with no fluids or that you are experiencing a ruined orgasm with pulsing but no pleasure release?

8. I believe this is normal, although I wish I did physically cum crazy everywhere every time i orgasmed I guess it’s nice to not have to clean up every time

9. This thread is probably up there with a previous post I saw about a male thinking he had broken the physical bone in his penis.

10. Women, even those who squirt, don’t regularly produce a noticeable amount of bodily fluids after orgasming. So what you’ve described doesn’t sound very alarming and it’s important to mention here that even the amount of bodily fluids that are produced vary from individual to individual… Cumming and orgasming are words that are used synonymously. So if something is going on maybe explain it without using the word “cumming” to give people a clearer idea of what your concern is.

11. Usually, orgasm and cum mean the same thing for people with vaginas and are used interchangeably. Orgasms for us don’t always involve a release of fluids like you sometimes see in porn, and full on squirting is pretty rare. You sound perfectly normal and have nothing to worry about!

12. Fluids = normal. No fluids = normal. As long as you feel good all is good!

13. I only have ejaculated fluids a couple of times during an orgasm, it’s normal not to though

14. some people are confused on what i mean… i have the feeling of an orgasm but nothing comes out