21F. So I “lost my virginity” (cherry popped) by a 6 inch dildo with my partner (22F) a couple days ago. Before than I had never really been penetrated by anything before.
We used lube so it slid in with no problem. She bottomed out/stuck it all the way in. It wasn’t the worst pain in the world but it did feel real uncomfortable(think like a 4 on the pain scale) and too full. I could only handle a handful of thrust from her before I needed her to take it out.
How can i make penetration feel better for me?When i masterbate it’s hot for me to think about and in my head i would love to be able to take dick or dildos with no problem. But for some reason I get so nervous of the pain when it’s time for her to stick it in and just feel anxious and not as turned on.
Any previous virgins been here? How did u get over your fears to let yourself feel good? I let her stick one finger in earlier it wasn’t really pleasurable so she just stopped. Please help.
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Not sure you’ll find any previous virgins.
For penetration you really do need some foreplay in advance, even if you’re not a virgin it’s typically nicer with some foreplay ahead of time. You want your body relaxed, if you’re tense it will create more friction, and it’s also good to go slow the in the beginning as well, especially if you’re new to penetration and build up on it. Also depends on the size of the dildo, they can often be bigger girth wise compared to an actual penis which can also contribute to more discomfort.
The pain you may be feeling is the vibrator hitting your cervix. Just before your cervix is a pleasure spot referred to the A spot. Try not going so deep with the vibrator.