ok so i’ve never really masturbated with fingers or toys (i have a vagina), and i’m trying to test them out. i want to be able to come using them but no luck so far. it feels good, and i want to, i just can’t find anything that really takes me there. any advice would be gratefully accepted.

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  1. The target area is your clitoris. Use three fingers, two on the side to pull up the area towards your belly to pull back the hood to expose it, then use the finger in the middle to rub on it with various intensity until you find something that feels good, then keep doing that.

  2. How long are you trying for? If I’m using my fingers, it can take a good 5 or 10 minutes to get anywhere close to an orgasm.

    Don’t expect to be ready to cum within a minute or two (uusally). Just touch and try different things, it should start to feel better and better until you cum.

  3. Using a little bit of lube/coconut oil on your fingers and focusing on your clitoris feels amazing- relax and don’t over think it, just focus on finding what feels best for you.
    I like to Imagine a partner is there with me, exploring my body and helping me orgasm. You can find erotic audio online specifically for this too.

  4. Mental stimulation helps a lot. The hornier you can get yourself the better. Erotica, porn, gonewildaudio, whatever works.

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