Um she kind of got a little pissy with me when she said she could provide papers stating shes HIV negative… Thats not the only std I care about and I insisted we still use protection. She started asking “doesnt using dental dams kill the purpose of oral sex?” Im supposed to be the one giving and I only want to protect myself. Should I just move on?
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Yes. She doesn’t care about your protection, hence why she is being so hostile towards dental dams.
Move on for sure.
Big skip. Cut her off
She doesn’t care enough to do this small, semi-long term thing for your and her own health, which is undeniably stupid.
Ditch. There are other, much nicer people.
Yeah, protection on any level isn’t something that’s up for debate. In my right frame of mind, I know that if I have to try to convince someone or bargain with them then I can’t trust them to not fall back into their preferred habits. No judgement, but we’d just be on two different wavelengths. It’d be in everyone’s best interest for us to just go our separate ways because horny brain can make us make stupid decisions in the heat of the moment.