My bf and I are planning on fucking when he comes to visit in about 2 weeks. We live about an hour apart, so we still see each other. We have been planning this for a while but do not know where to start. We want to go some more nefarious things as well such as bdsm and maybe some tiying down. Any advice would help and maybe recommend some things to use on each other.
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Sorry for maybe inapprociate question – but do you both have sexual experience or is it the first time? Or are you looking for answer how to start BDSM?
If it is your first time then I suggest ignoring your bdsm wants and having ‘reguar’ sex first. Get to know each others bodies and how to make each other cum if that is a goal. Don’t go straight into any type of play, build up to that. Learn how you both move and think in the bedroom and build the trust and vulnerability to move on to new things
starting bdsm for the first time won’t happen that quickly you need to work up to it. If you know he’s already into it try starting with some handcuffs your bought or ask him to tie your hands together or something. Just start slow, see where it goes and offer to step it up the next session if it goes well.
just take it slow. have safe words and understand that sometimes kinks are better in your head than in real life.