So I (22F) am dating my bf (22M) since 3 months. At first, our sex life was really good, we did it day and night. I know its normal that the honeymoon phase doesnt last, but its worse than that. What is happening is that my bf isnt able to maintain an erection when we have sex, and we often have to stop. I tried talking to him about it, but seems like he doesnt know why either. He barely can get hard anymore, and I’m kind of getting worried about it. Plus he doesnt seem very sexual anymore with me, unless for like 5 minutes of rapid intercourse. I dont know what to think about that, never happened with my last boyfriends.
Gotta clarify that he says he loves me very much and says I’m the best thing that happened to him; so isnt lack of love
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He might be gay or bisexual! I would talk to him about exploring his sexuality
Communication communication communication. Not getting hard is a sign of many things, it can be a severe depression, body dysmorphia, who knows, but really it’s about communication.
I wasn’t able to get hard untill u saw her with someone else…
Inb4 deathgrip
Can he maintain an erection during hjs/oral/when using toys?
This is possibly the worst case of adhd I have ever seen