Pretty straight forward question. I recently started fingering/eating my gf and she enjoys it but I never noticed anything different. How do I know when my gf has cummed? Does she squirt like porn or not? Also, most of the times when I finger her my fingers get tired after a couple of minutes. How do I build resistance?
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Have you tried talking to her?
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If your fingers are in her, you might feel the pelvic floor contractions (basically her vagina contracting). But really, almost all signs of female orgasm can be faked so this is where good communication is important (and not acting butthurt when she doesn’t come, so she’s not tempted to fake it).
>Does she squirt like porn or not?
Some women do, some don’t. Most likely she won’t squirt as it’s pretty uncommon.
>most of the times when I finger her my fingers get tired after a couple of minutes
Ask her what she likes, but it’s possible you don’t need to move your hands as much as you are. You can just try putting pressure on the upward wall of the vagina. If your hands are totally dead, you can grab a toy and use that while you take a break.
Two thing usually happen to let you know. If you have your fingers in her, you should be able feel her contractions. Also her clit will get sensitive and probably be very sensitive to touch.
Well first of all when you are “fingering” you aren’t actually pushing your fingers in and out of the vagina but applying pressure on her gspot. The gspot is located on the other side of the pelvic bone facing away from the clit (look it up if unclear)
Basically if she is on her back. Put two fingers inside her and do the “come here” motion. As you get better at it, it’s not really come here, more like hooking her and applying rhythmic pressure on her gspot.
Couple that with licking her clit and keep a steady rhythm and it will be very very obvious when she cums.
Probably she will tap out after she does, make sure you slowly take your fingers out because she will be very sensitive and hopefully very exhausted, satisfied and turned into clay in your hands. Enjoy!
Most of us make noise and have muscle contractions when we cum. Only about 1 in 5 of us squirt. You really need to talk to her more as you don’t even know if she’s managed to orgasm by herself before, never mind with you
You can feel it.
For the “how will I know”, all I can say is she will have a reaction that won’t leave you guessing. You’ll feel the vaginal walls tighten and contract and she will make noise or grab sheets. Or, easiest of all, just ask her. Ask for the fingering issue; just tell her! Say your fingers are getting tired but don’t ruin the mood, if you’re willing to keep going maybe suggest eating her out for a bit inbetween? Hope this helped! -(F)
Ask her. And no, most women do not squirt, porn is super unrealistic.