Hello! I was just curious about what the best dildo would be to get for a strap-on. It’s both of our first times doing anything like this but we just want to have a good time!
We do already have a harness picked out so we are all good on that! If you want to you can still recommend harnesses but we’re mainly looking for a dildo.
Also if anyone has any tips they can give me / advice that would be greatly appreciated! Any advice for her?
Edit: It’s a female pegging a male and budget is around $50-100
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There is no “best dildo”, you should look for a body safe one, as one made with platinum cured silicon. Within those body safe ones, you need to look for the properties that you need:
– lenght and girth
– firmness
– realistic?
– dual density?
– curved?
– shape? (here opens up a world)
There are many considerations and what’s best for a person maybe the worst for other.
I know that it is very overwhelming when you start with pegging, but you may have to try some until you find one that you like, and even then you may need to upgrade it with time.
I would start with a quality silicon dildo of 6~7 inches long and 1.5 inches in diameter, medium firmness. You may need to train yourself with butt plugs before taking it as 1.5″ diameter is not actually a beginners size, but anything less and you may have to upgrade very very soon.
Best advice is start smaller than you think. Pegging is way different than solo play.
As for a dildo most harnesses have a ring so make sure it has a base (suction cup). Go slow no matter the position can’t just ram it in there.