I don’t know if this is where I should post this but, the person I’m talking to would respond to my texts days later to weeks or not even at all. And they always scold me about not communicating with them about how I feel but, they never communicate to me about how they feel and always leave me hanging for weeks. I understand that people are busy but, I feel like once we hit the 1 month mark of not responding I should at least get a little “hey I’m busy text”
And they post constantly about their friends or their convos with friends.
But I don’t know how I should approach the situation.
(I’m sorry if this is not where I should post this)
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Gaslighting.
Come on.
How is this not obvious?
I would avoid this individual. It should be easy.
She’s obviously not interested.
If they aren’t talking to you for such a long time then they aren’t interested in you. Atleast the current you.
Read this book. How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie.
Some people just don’t like texting. I hate that society is really coming to this point where if you don’t text back, there’s something wrong with your social skills. I say it’s the other way around: if you want to see me, do something with me, need something from me and need an answer quickly then CALL me. Now I’m not a big caller myself, but to that I have to keep my expectations low: if I text someone, I do not ever expect them to text me back immediately – and if I needed them to, I WOULD call them.
I don’t like being on my phone all the time. It wrecks your eyes and your posture. I refuse to sit around having conversations all day on my phone like that. I wish it wasn’t normalized.
As for your situation, what made you block her in the first place? I know that even if I was interested in someone either romantically or as a friendship, I would lose interest quickly if I felt too much pressure too early. Esp if it’s something like pressure to text when it’s not really my thing.
stop asking. stop fucking w then. don’t beg for nothing. you’ll be left with no confidence at the end of everything. i experienced this.