My girl won’t give head

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1. Ask her why she stopped.

2. In 99% of the cases, washing the penis thoroughly helps

3. Ask her why she stopped.

   Some random examples could be:

   It’s not as clean as it could be and she feels awkward telling you it smells

   You might be too aggressive and force her head down and she hates it

   It makes her jaw ache

   She’s just not into it

   It’s hard for anyone here to know for sure.

4. She’s being passive-aggressive, and that type is a lost cause. (She’s being evasive.)

5. She is not that in to you. You asked she still does not. Other signs things are not great?

6. I’m sorry that she’s not answering your questions. You might have to ask her in different ways and explain why miss it so much. I think she is avoiding answering your question because she knows her answer is something you don’t want to hear. You might have to find a very non judgemental way of asking. And her might be that she actually wasn’t happy with the way she was giving blowjobs before, and if she’s going to start doing them again then you guys might have work out a compromise.

   I have a few questions about the context in which she was giving you bjs before:

   Did she cum right before she gave you the bj? If not, did give her an orgasm right after you came? Or were these bjs typically favors just for you at a separate from other sexual activity? Or were some of these like a warm up to PIV sex, where she went down on you for a while, but not all the way until you finished? You say you are still giving her oral, but are you doing so in the same sexual encounter? Or a different day?

   I say this because one of the reasons I’ve gotten frustrated with giving blow jobs is because some of the men I’ve been with think that it’s fine to end our sexy time once they cum from a blow job, regardless of wether or not they have even tried to give me an orgasm. I used to be a lot more generous with blow jobs when I was younger and less experienced and didn’t realize that men get sleepy right after they cum and sometimes use that as an excuse to not even try to please me. If you’re one of these guys and know you will be too sleepy to please her after you cum, then you have to at least offer to try to get her off before you take your turn. Women aren’t wired the same as men in regards to orgasms: we can keep going and please you after we get our own. I grew very resentful of the first guy I slept with who treated me this way, even though I genuinely enjoyed going down on him.

   You don’t necessarily need to shave. I prefer when men don’t because it creates stubble that pricks me in an uncomfortable way during PIV sex. It’s less of a problem during bjs though.

7. Do you have an uncut dick and you’re not washing properly?

8. Maybe she’s not that into you?

9. Did you get married?

10. If you ask her to and she won’t, then that’s that. Accept the “no”

    You dont have to keep dating her though

    If someone didn’t do the things I like in bed, I would leave….

11. Communicate, and make sure your hygiene is spot on.