Recently, my female best friend started to have a crush on some boy, and i kinda dont know what to do. I mean, I want to support her but I dont understand her excitment when he writes to her or when she receives a phone call from here. I am not aromantic.It’s been a long time since I have fallen in love with someone or got a crush on someone, and i have forgotten what it is like.
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Maybe try thinking about it in the sense that this is a milestone for your friend. You may not know the person she likes, or understand the concept as much for now, but you can still focus on the aspects of these feelings she has that will help her grow as a person.
Love is a big deal to most people, and especially if it’s new in the partner sense, there’s a lot to learn from this. Looking at it from an objective standpoint for your friend isn’t a bad thing, and can also open up more topics of conversation when she talks about this person