Does she just want to be friends?

Let me start by saying I am 2 months out of a 4 year relationship since high school. I have not been with another girl since then. I have recently been talking to an old friend that I reach out to from high school. Let’s just say that we were intimate with each other back then, but she is not the same person she was.

We have been talking and have hung out a few times, but ultimately I am 100% unsure of what she wants. I’ll be honest, I was to be intimate again so bad. She has not anything about it though, but she still wants to talk on the phone and text me. The thing is, I was not reaching out to her for a while cause she flaked on me twice in a row so I decided to let her text me. She did multiple times, but it was always like a “how are you, we should hang out soon” and would proceed to do a nothing about it. I don’t know if she’s playing a game that I don’t understand, but it sounds like she’s interested and not interested at the same time. I just don’t know how to read it anymore. Sometimes she’ll text me randomly with smileys and asks how I’m doing or when I’m free, but I’ll respond, and she won’t respond back after that for like 2 days. She always texts me using tons of smiley faces and “heeeys” and I just don’t know how to read her anymore. She has complimented my looks in person and we have had long hugs. She laughs at me even when I know the laughs are not 100% genuine. I know she thinks I’m attractive, but I don’t know if she wants anything intimate, and I have know idea how to ask her that.

Maybe I’m overthinking all of this, but she has just not given any signals. I don’t know if this is slow burning or what but I’m tired of waiting lol. Someone help me out.