I haven’t had sex with the new guy I’m dating. Is it torturous or fun to touch him and tease him for when the right time comes?

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1. Bit of both. Depends on how far away the right time is though.

2. Torturous to say the least. Teasing is fun only when the end goal is in sight. (Think of it like teasing someone witholding food after you put it almost in their mouth. It’s cute. Do it 100 times, it’s torture. Do it to a starved kid in africa; it’s cruelty. That’s the best way I can describe it).

3. That’s a horrendous thing to do. Don’t be evil.

4. For me, teasing without soon pleasing is torturous enough to make me not want to be around that person anymore.
   I do not like it when somebody doesn’t finish what they started.

5. Depends on the dude. If you’re not ready to have sex then making out and stuff without sex would be a great test of his character. You should be able to enjoy making out without him assuming or feeling entitled to having sex with you

6. Teasing is only appropriate when you deliver in a timely fashion.

   “Timely fashion” means some time that day.

7. You should not tease unless that act is going to lead to something then and there

8. It’s overall fun for me. Makes me want to fuck you harder later.

9. I like it. Builds the sexual tension

10. You sound like an insufferable cunt

11. *Slight* forms of teasing are okay and fun *sometimes*. But keep in mind that it can cause expectations to build up – if you can’t deliver accordingly, he will end up being disappointed and frustrated. Which might even cause him to drop you like a hot potato. I would suggest to wait with teasing until there is more of a foundation between both of you.

12. Tease him on the evening you fuck him,all other is torture

13. Depends on the guy I guess… Unlike most of the guys answering I FUC*ING love being teased.

14. Depends if its good natured or not.

15. Annoying.

    Likely to result in him getting it elsewhere.

16. If you would tease without delivering soon, we would not be together long.

17. Both.

18. Yes. (Both)

19. If you keep torturing him, the right time is gonna come for him and someone else.