I’m 25F and with my first partner ever. Did a gyno exam including Pap smear recently and everything came back normal. We have foreplay and I feel adequately wet, but with each deep thrust there’s a sharp pain in my uterus almost like menstrual pain, even when I’m not on my period. His d is 5.5 inches and thick. We use a condom every time. I can only orgasm rubbing my clit (toys/ his hands tongue doesn’t make me cum although they feel nice). PIV feels nice especially when the pace is fast and I kinda feel like peeing but I don’t think I’ve orgasmed. I’ve googled and searched this sub about uterine pain but nothing very helpful came up. Would appreciate anybody with similar experience and any advice. Thank you!!
Edit: forgot to mention I’m not on any birth control (only condoms)
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it’s great that you had that pap smear! that definitely doesn’t take away a lot of factors. when i first started having sex it hurt too and i definitely did got to the doctors. same result as you. for me, it was a matter of taking it slow. make sure you guys foreplay longer so that you’re relaxed. and when he’s thrusting, fast pace is nice but bc he’s your first it’ll hurt for the first bit. take it slow and go from there. it’ll get better as the time goes. in my experience, it goes away after you get more use to his size. goodluck and hopefully other people can help
Yeah he’s probably hitting your cervix. Vaginas come in all shapes and sizes and it’s possible yours is just shorter than average. Try to find positions that don’t go as deep, and you can use penis bumpers (look up the oh nut) or a couple of squishy c-rings around the base of the penis to prevent the problem.