So, I love my partner and he loves me, we have been together almost three years. We used to have an excellent sex life, and still do really.
The issue is definitely with me. I want sex regularly, I fancy my partner, I am generally into sex. However, we will get to bed, lay there with that electric atmosphere excited to have sex and I just can’t do it. I just cannot take the steps to have sex.
It’s really frustrating us both. We have spoken about it and, bless him, he’s so good about it all, I’m just so confused.
It feels like I’m being blocked by something even though my body is ready and my mind is all giddy/exited for it. It almost feels like an ‘I can’t be bothered’ feeling, but I know once I get going I’ll be okay.
Redditors, dear people in my phone, what on earth is this? I can’t keep going weeks without sex, nor can he, but I don’t know what is going on!
Thank you for reading and any insight.
2 comments
Just start kissing him…is he aware of this issue? Why can’t he make the first move knowing you have this mental block?
After 3 years, maybe your sex life is reaching a plateau. Spice it up, go to a different room in the house or even outside!