What’s an immediate turn on in a woman?

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  1. Intelligence. We all need the physical features to drag us in but if she canโ€™t hold an intelligent conversation I am so out of there. If she even looks nerdy thatโ€™s instant attraction to me.

  2. She’s really knowledgeable and/or skilled about something. And is cute with long hair.

  3. Intelligence ๐Ÿง  is probably the biggest TURN OFF ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ‘Ž

    An immediate turn on is hair ๐Ÿ’‡โ€โ™€๏ธ, smile ๐Ÿ˜„, voice ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ, limbal rings ๐Ÿ‘๏ธ ๐Ÿคค

  4. Iโ€™m a girl, and all the guys I know seem to value kindness, honesty, generosity, and respect. Oh, and boobs LOL

  5. To be humble and genuinely happy.

    Let me elaborate on this: For example, you go out on a date and she aks the waitress for his/her name and remember it, no matter how expensive the place is, shes polite and feel natural like… being herself… i mean… that kind of girl is just… OMG

  6. Keeping to herself, and focusing her attention on either me, or her task at hand.

    No drama, simple, based, relaxed.

  7. Once I get by the havoc mother nature puts me through with certain women,and my knees function, the fire in my brain dampens and my mouth works…I look for confidence, intelligence and a good sense of humor.

  8. So the question is kind of assuming we are past the basic being attracted and talking about what flips our switch.

    A look of sexual desire in her eyes just for me. Nothing does it for me like being wanted in that way.

  9. All these answers remind me of corporate lingo:

    โ€œA can do attitude, with a smile and passion for what they do!โ€

  10. For me? Virtue.

    Lots of people saying intelligence when the data shows that men tend to prefer women less intelligent than they are, and women prefer men more intelligent than they are.

    Just interesting, the way society had conditioned men into saying intelligence, when what they really want is peaceability.

  11. When she starts the conversation with you. When she smiles. A positive attitude. Oh god and accountability.

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