My friend and I meet about once a month. We have something together but last time we met they got really distant. I talked to them over text and they said that they think I want more than we have now. Everything was fine after we talked but I overthink a lot now. I’m insecure and don’t know what I am allowed to do and what not. And I feel like they are still distant. I don’t know why they also did the same things when they thought I wanted more.
I want to talk about this in person but I’m really scared. (Boundaries and stuff)
When we last met we agreed to go to the cinema. I have school break in a week and send my calendar to them so thex could tell me when they got time as soon as they knew. Then the things I listed above happened and they haven’t texted me if they got time yet.
I want to ask them but I also don’t want to get too close to them.
I also want to ask if I can stay over the night or something so that we get time to talk…
yesterday would’ve been the perfect day because I went to the cinema with an other friend and I thought that I could bring it up in a conversation but my friend was so hungover we didn’t text all day…
How do I ask?
Help