So I went on a first date with this guy last weekend, it went well, great conversations, but I wasn’t sure if I was attracted to him. There was a cute moment towards the end of the date and we kissed, but I don’t think I would have kissed him if that moment happened. Then he kept wanting to kiss me and I kissed him back but I didn’t really want to. We have a second date planned, but I don’t want to kiss him till I’m sure I like him. How do I do this considering we’ve already kissed? Any advice?
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What?? Just don’t kiss him if you don’t want to. “No” is a full sentence. “I’m not comfortable right now, let’s go on another date” if you want to postpone it. Nothing wrong with saying either thing. If he reacts badly, then he’s not a good partner nor worth your time.
Say you want to take it slow. Simple