This may come off as angry, but holy shit I cannot take this anymore.
I (18m) am in my first year of college, and me and my roommate (also 18m) have not gotten along well at all. We aren’t bickering or fighting all the time, but we barely talk and he rarely leaves the room, especially on weekends.
The past couple months, I have started to become more and more horny more often. I don’t know if I am a late bloomer or something, but all I know is is that it’s become normal for me to masturbate 4+ times in a week. During high school it was normally 1 or 2 times a week. Most times I’ve masturbated at college is when he leaves to take a shower every 2 days or so.
Most mornings I have resist the urge to masturbate, and I wake up far earlier than him (most weekends he gets out of bed after 1 in the afternoon). There have been two times where I’ve cracked and just rubbed one out under my sheets quickly, which I know is wrong. That’s only happened when he doesn’t leave the room for days at a time.
I’ve been sorta rambling, but is it normal to feel horny / to masturbate this often?
All I know for sure is that the end of this semester cannot come soon e-fucking-nough.
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Talk to him about giving each other some private time.
No real advice except for that’s just one of the fun issues with living in a shared room dorm. Do you not have alone time when he’s at his classes?
You’re in college, stop beating your meat and go get your meat beat. The roommate isn’t a problem here.
tell him you’re horny and you’re gonna jerk off and he either needs to leave the room or get comfortable with you jerking off in the room with him. I’ve jerked off with buddies in the room before in similar situations lol. just tell him what you need and he can make his decision from there
Use the bathroom
I think you both need to fuck.
Cant you do it in the shower ?
I studied at University of Pennsylvania and I used to lived in Campus so I understand you about what is not having any privacy. Talk to him about giving each other private time… If you masturbate in the same room when he’s around it could be considered sexual violence.
Well, i guess if the showers are not private, that’s tricky. If you have an attached bathroom, pretend to be constipated. Or use a stall down the hall.
There’s nothing “wrong” about masturbating in your bed, just go slow, and quiet. That’s probably better than urgently rubbing one out, which might lead to getting conditioned into fast climaxes, which you’ll wish later didn’t exist.
Alternatively, maybe consider a relationship or FWB situation, where maybe they can provide you a safe space to set up a shared masturbatorium, or an oral sex dojo, or Greco Roman fucking arena.
Im a weird fuck so take this as you will.. do it with him in the room, either stay in bed and sneak it while hes asleep, or just whip it out, either he will leave or you guys will figure out the reasoning for all your tension, or he may mock you, just dont have shame about it and take care of your needs, people in college typically get used to this rather quickly, especially in dorms.
I mean, what are you going to do if you bring a girl back, or him for that matter? You guys just gonna leave or ask to join or go do whatever you do when youre not whacking off / fucking? Go play a game or something