When it comes to approaching people, I often face this problem where I’m delaying it, it feels as if It’s the wrong time or an inappropiate moment to approach them.
Whenever I see people talking and walking with another individual, I would distance myself because it’s rather difficult for me to approach them.
Most of these individuals already know me and some of them are friends of mine, it’s just that I don’t know how to actually approach them and to talk to them.
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Doesn’t matter how , as long as you’re friendly and don’t cling people will be drawn back to you (at least the people you vibe with obviously you cant be friends with everyone)
I sometimes talk about the weather , sometimes about soccer sometimes i just invite myself into their conversation and add a comment, whatever is on my mind I share it
You will build your own approach over time.
But to start off:
– Have eye contact. If you don’t look at their eyes they won’t look back at you and you won’t be able to join or initiate a conversation.
– Be fully involved in that moment, don’t try to do it as a task.