My partner (24F) and I (23F) have a pretty big attraction to femme boys but identify as lesbians. Recently, the thought of having a casual threesome with one has been overriding my thoughts and making me ungodly horny. Would most guys find this off-putting? We wouldn’t go on dating apps but if the general consensus is that this is weird, we can put it to rest. If it’s not weird, please comment how I can get one in my bed…
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Well it’s not of putting but would be Intersting and very sexualLu exiting experience
Does he find them attractive?
Does he believe they’ll actually participate with him sexually or if it’ll be some kind of weird, stilted, or actively unpleasant situation?
If the answers to those two questions are the right ones, then, yeah, probably a lot of guys would potentially be interested.
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Granted, I don’t know exactly what you mean by “femme boys” as opposed to the more common term “femboys,” and so the meaning of that could definitely get you into territory that is very much divorced from your average run of the mill dude.
As a dude, this is in the personal fantasies’ top 10. Then again maybe not everyone is as wild as me.
As long as they also do something to the guy 🙂 Then it’s like one of the hottest things imaginable.
Even if all I got out of this situation was maybe some head, getting to go down on 1 or both of you, and some watching; I’d still call that a good fucking night
99% of men would explode if a lesbian couple asked them to have a threesome, but in a good way.
Feeld is a good, open minded app for finding a guy for this.
Sounds like you’re both bisexual with a strong preference for women then? I don’t think that’s going to bother any men who are down for a threesome. It can be a plus because it takes some of the heat off him to satisfy you both on his own.
It’s not weird and you shouldn’t have a problem finding people that are interested.
Yeah, its quite fun.
Definitely recommend.
Don’t know many men who would say no tbh. Most people on dating sites/apps are tired of seeing girls with their ugly boyfriends looking for girls to have a threesome with, so you’ll definitely be a breath of fresh air
nothing is weird really. you either find one thats dtf or not.
me (m) had a great experience with a lesbian couple. although thats a longer story 😀
Well you aren’t lesbians first of all.
Considering the amount of sexual harassment Lesbians get I don’t see how you could even ask this question. “Converting” a lesbian is a disgustingly common fetish. One that you are actively contributing too.
What is weird is the fact that you are going around calling yourself a lesbian while having a big attraction to men who are feminine and actively wanting to have sex with a man.
Sapphic isn’t attraction to femininity. You can be exclusively attracted to Butches and still be sapphic.
Are you including him in sexy time (oral, piv etc) or is he just there to be there, without actual or with little involvement? If the latter, then thats prolly not too easy to find but ,honestly, probably not too difficult either 😄
If He is actively participating it, probably, is going to be very easy to find someone willing
This is my dream
Yes, of course as long as he was involved and they weren’t ugly as hell and then maybe even.
If it’s consensual and everyone is genuinely attracted to one another, then why not?
I feel like the bigger issue is you feeding into the idea that men can change lesbians attraction.
Yes. 100% yes.
Disappoint two women at the same time? Its EVERY man’s dream.
I feel like your biggest problem may be convincing a potential partner that when it’s all over, he’s still gonna have both kidneys. This is such a straight male fantasy that it may set off “Too Good To Be True” alarm bells.
Go somewhere you can find suitably femme-looking dudes who might be into pussy (I have no idea where that might be, sorry), start a conversation with one, feel him out, drop the question. I have to think it’s not going to take you long to find one whose dick convinces him to roll with this particular risk::reward ratio and say “Yes.”
To me the question is similar to: ‘Do people like oxygen’?
Quad polycule better than throuple; switching partners without anyone getting left out. Rather than date singles, why not be a couple who dates other couples?
Straight man here. YES!
I literally had this experience with an lesbian couple that both were Bi.
Honestly it was absolutely fantastic at first. Got abit pear shaped and complex near the end. So bittersweet.
Definitely
With respect and no BDSM 👍
Don’t think you’re lesbian if that’s the case, more pan or bi; having sex with a man takes away your lesbian card. Ruins the lesbian community when u have women who say this shit then wanna fuck men. No one else is calling u out because most of these comments are straight men . I’ll be the first 💯
As somebody mentioned above you are bisexual by the definition of it. And as a Greek and with MoS in linguistics the term Sapphic is synonym to Lesbian. The term lesbian derived from the island of lesvos, the place where Sappho used to live and write poetry about her girfriends and love between women.
I think most guys would love to be the “stunt cock” with two lesbians.
Ignore all the gatekeepers saying you aren’t a lesbian. A one off erotic experience doesn’t change your whole sexuality, straight women have threesomes with women all the time.
If you only romantically date women and are erotically focused on women you’re a lesbian.
Side note: there are lots of non binary amab people who kinda look like fem boys. Maybe you could find one of them?
I have a gf who wants to have FFM, let’s make it FFFM
I’m free that day.
Most men
Femme boy here to say – yes, we would be interested. Extremely.
Lol yes
I’m a straight guy that had a threesome with 2 lesbians from a dating app. Best sexual experience of my life, think about it almost daily.
You’re not lesbian then
Pretty much depends on what kind of lesbian you are, there’s pretty lesbians and there’s some that look like men. Butch lesbians wouldn’t appeal to most men
9/10 would. But whether they would enjoy it would depend what role he gets to play.
I’m in
11/10 would agree
You’re joking right….like this would be a dream come true of mine
It’s a fantasy, I would love to be involved with two lesbians. Just don’t fight over which one is riding my face. 😂
If I wanted to disappoint 2 people at once I’d go have dinner with my parents! 😂 No, actually, if this ever happened to me my head would explode!
Can I get a, “HELL YES!”
A typical man would probably be interested, provided the ladies involved would actually want to interact with him and he’s attracted to them. But is a femboy a typical man? Would a femboy be into it? I mean yeah some would probably, but I feel like that could make it trickier. Though I’m sure there are plenty of bi guys that are maybe a bit more on the fem side that would be down to clown.
I occasionally do bdsm scenes with a lesbian friend and her wife. Neither of them are interested in my penis, and typically my clothes stay on. It’s not weird. Just adults having fun. Afterwards we go back to platonic friend activities. Watching star wars. Playing board games. Doesn’t hurt our friendship at all.
Key is lots of comminication. Making sure everyone knows/respects boundaries and has fun. That everyone is being heard and cared for and not just used as an object. Even if it’s a one time hookup, communication is key.
Is it for everyone? No. But there are definitely guys who will be into it. My recommendation for finding them is to use dating sites/apps.
….come again?
I’d say your biggest issue isn’t to find someone interested but to find someone that doesn’t sexualize lesbians and invalidate your identity.
If you’re both lesbians and want to sleep with a guy then you’re not lesbians… lesbians do not want to sleep with men any more than a straight guy does and you discredit actual lesbians by using these kinds of labels