I didn’t have an orgasm until I was about 24. And then I went a few more years without having one. I got really into porn about 2 years ago and was able to get off every time. My ex husband made me cum about 5 times or so. One guy I slept with once tried to make me cum for 5 hours but couldn’t. With my new partner of 3 months I have cum maybe around 10 times? They have all been moments where I felt really uninhibited and kind of took control of what I wanted. BUT when it comes to getting turned on I want him to take control and dominate me. Anyways, I have religious sexual trauma which I know plays a role. I guess I’m hoping to hear stories from other vulva owners who have eventually learned to cum easily and freely? I read these stories of women cumming and having multiple orgasms and I envy it.