my ex(21m) and i (19f) were together for 2.5 years and were extremely compatible. he always said i was an amazing girlfriend and he would marry me if we were older. we had sex almost everyday and it was so good. he always bragged about our sex life. i loved to give him oral randomly and to wear lingerie as a surprise. we are young and now that he is almost a junior in college he feels as if this is the only time he can experience sex with another woman. i understand there is a grass is greener/FOMO situation but i don’t really know where to post this.
tldr: he left to sleep around i feel like i am not enough. i recognize i am but this feels horrible
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It sucks, but let him do his thing. It’s better than him resenting you down the line for wishing he’d got around a little bit more.
This says nothing about you-and more about him. I think the thought of settling down scares men that early on, it has nothing to do with you & what you brought to the table.
Keep your head up 🤍
Its not greener on the other side but it’ll seem like that to him, I’m sorry this happened to you. Try to think about what this makes him as a person, is that who you really want to be with? Someone who was eager to get rid of you after getting off enough times? Trash took itself out baby, you’ll get someone that absolutely fucking adores you without the need to change you like a tire.