Me and my gf don’t get many chances to meet up. How can I cum (ejaculate) more times in a session with her? (I am male)

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2. Dude…. Honestly, you have to train yourself. Try jerking off, cumming, and keep trying to jerk again until you can. I am sometimes able to cum inside my wife and then keep going…. At those times there’s like a 3 minute window where I’m not as “hard” but still in there lol after that time, it’s like I’ve activated “Second Wind.”

3. Also, I did 27 times in a 3 hour period, just jerking it. Wanted to see what I could do …. My penis was swollen for a few days.

4. Does she even want to do this? Sounds like you’re just focused on getting in as many orgasms as you can with her. Sounds gross to a woman.

5. Save up for a good few days ~ up to a week (depending on your body) before you meet up, if you want to be able to go again and again.
   * You should still walk the dog regularly when you aren’t meeting up tho, otherwise your body will adapt to your lower “usage”.

6. Keep us updated

7. Red bull and cigarette before

8. Viagra the day of, 50mg zinc daily, sunflower lecithin daily, drink lots of water daily, edge everyday (don’t ejaculate) three days prior, get plenty of sleep at least 8 hrs, and did I say Viagra?

9. I’m in a similar boat. I don’t abstain during the week because when I do, the first load blown really drains my energy and I lose the ability to get hard quickly. In fact I try to keep the porn rolling and get hard and cum again 20 mins after the first time. I feel like this sets an expectation between me and my dick lol.

   I sometimes take viagra for evening sex which helps me either stay 80% hard or get fully hard again in 20 mins.

   I prioritise positions too, I won’t be consistently hard enough for girl on top or standing sex for round 2, so I make sure to do that first after a few hours break. Round 2 is usually passionate spoons sex or hard doggy sex as it’s hard to cum that second time in positions where your body is tended or in an awkward position or holding your or her weight.

   I have triggers, such as if I see or touch or lick her butthole I almost always get hard. I’ll literally flip her over to get access to it if I need a turbo-charge.

   We have sex before we go out Saturday night (5pm nap, usually oral) go out, sex before sleep, then scheduled sex around 5am (I always wake but I set a vibrating alarm on my watch just in case) and go back to sleep then fuck again around 9am. My recovery time is better in the morning and I am sometimes ready again at 10am after breakfast and Netflix in bed.

   I aim to blow 7 loads between Friday 6pm and Sunday 2pm.

10. I don’t know if this is just me but I’ll put it out there. When I havnt had the opportunity for sex with my partner in a while this is usually how it goes; I know I’ll cum fast first time so we do foreplay and I’ll get her off once and then absolutely pound her until I cum but then stay inside her. I’ll begin going really slowly and this way I can maintain a full erection, I’ll go slow for a good 10 or 15 minutes and that’s when it gets hot and sweaty. I know I’ve got a trobbing cock but I also know it isn’t going to come very easily at all and she likes the challenge. Doing this you’d easily manage 45 minutes of fucking minimum but it has worked well over an hour to. Sometimes I don’t cum a second time but then if you rest a little and go back to it you should be good! I wish you the best 🙏

11. Try going to the gym and playing sports. Doing things with other men will generally get you to compete with them. This in turn will boost your T. Just being able to perform at a subpar level with other men will get you there. Increased aggression in the field will then turn to your mood in the bedroom and you will perform well and hopefully ejaculate more than 2-3 at least.