How to give a hj?

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1. Buy some books: the joy of sex, sex is fun, the guide to getting it on, or just watch some non-hardcore porn, no gagging

2. Watch your grip, definitely err on the side of light. I’d say a good rule of thumb is if the skin of the shaft is moving with your hand and curling over the tip, you could probably lighten up. A tiny bit of lube or some lotion goes a long way. I wouldn’t say it’s necessary, but it will make it feel better for him and make it much easier on you.

   As for a BJ, we can’t post links here, but if you go to YouTube and look up ‘The Ultimate Blowjob – Part 2’ by YouTuber Dr. Doe on her channel sexplanations, that’s a video I’d recommend to anyone who’s new at this. There’s probably even some decent tips in there for people who aren’t new at it.

3. Handjob videos on PornHub

4. One tip is don’t stop when he starts to cum, keep going until it finishes.

5. Ask him how he likes it, what feels good to him, how he does it.

6. It’s not about cumming. It’s about making him relax.

7. Use lube, be enthusiastic. I like my balls played with taint rubbed and anal play. Two hands with the twist is fun and don’t stop till he’s done cumming. Adding in some dirty talk and ass eating is also great. Watch some videos for sure to get different ideas and techniques. I personally prefer a good handy or a bj

8. Spit on it

9. Talk with your guy, let him guide you, use some lub and practice a lot with him. Same with bj, but be careful with teeth.

10. Communication is key,ask him what he likes. Also a little Communication during the act can be helpful.

11. LUBE