So I just got a two set buttplug and dildo off lovehoney and I’m wondering how do I go about using them?
I lubed up and slowly put in the smaller buttplug (5.5 inch circumference at widest part and 3 insertable) but it got to the point where it was too painful to put any further so I stopped. I’ve been trying again slowly but Im worried I’m gonna tear something.
With the dildo (6.5 inch with a bulbous head), I can get that in but don’t really obtain any pleasure at all until about halfway through where it feels kind of uncomfortable before getting really uncomfortable (but not.painful but I feel like I should stop)
Using plenty of lube but maybe I’m missing something?
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Keep using lube, all over the toy, not just the tip. Warm up using your fingers and try different positions to get it in, for exmple lying down on your side and pulling up one or both knees
DO NOT PUT A DILDO IN YOUR ASS. Butt toys have flared bases for a reason and that reason is “things without a flared base can get stuck in there.” Ask any ER nurse and they’ll tell you how much random ass shit (literally) they have to extract from assholes every month.
Anyway, you can’t go from zero to butt slut in a day. You have to train your asshole to get used to things going in it. Start small, relax, get used to a very small thing then put something a little bit bigger in and so on and so forth. The people you see in porn driving entire city buses up their ass did not start that way. They started right where you you did with a pinky finger hurting.
Try clenching down really hard when it gets to a point it gets difficult at. Don’t move the plug while doing so. Then release. For me, if lubed enough, it’ll go on further then.