my boyfriend has been hinting and flat out mentioning him wanting to give me head and im really nervous about it. were both sexually experienced but he is definitely way more experience than i am but im scared abt him giving me oral and him not likimg what he sees or if it smells or tastes bad, i do clean myself properly and i havent noticed anything wrong at all but im still like scared and im really insecure and idk what to like do while hes going down on me, ive gotten head before but it was really short and the guy did it under a blanket and it was dark so i wasnt too worried about it but im still like nervous about my bf giving me head

5 comments
  1. Relax, he loves how you look, and wants to be there.
    Just lie back and accept it.

  2. Relax girl! We love doing it. If you’re keeping yourself clean you’ve done your part. He’s experienced so he knows what to expect. Tell him you have some anxiety about your scent and to please not be shy to let you know if it’s off. If he doesn’t say anything assume that everything’s fine and dandy.

    As for what to do during, the sounds that my past partners have made have been more than enough for me. I’ve never had a woman get handsy with me while I was going down but I can imagine I’d enjoy feeling her fingers in my hair or her hands on my shoulders, back, or the back of my neck. Some might even enjoy you using a bit of force and directing their mouth where you want it to be but that will vary from person to person.

  3. You can do no wrong…. Try to approach it like a class, where the objective is for him to learn how to please you, and for you to learn how you like being pleased. Enthusiasm will be far more valuable to you than insecurity.

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