My girlfriend and I are on a break, she’d lost feelings but is slowly and naturally gaining those feelings back. We decided to meet at my place. So she asked me if we were having sex. I told that I don’t feel it was right to have sex without being sure of her feelings. I obviously wanted her to completely be sure of her feelings first. She even told me that she wanted to do it too and felt that her feelings might increase if we get physical as she thought I was feeling uncomfortable. She even assured me that it was okay if I felt we needed to wait. We both are having sex for the first time tho. What do I do, I really need help.
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How old are you both? This sounds kind of fishy on her part
If you’re going to have penetrative sex then you’ll need a condom. Lifestyle is a good brand. Buy the right size. Put one on and make sure it fits. If you put the condom on backward, then you have to get a new one because the tip has been contaminated with precum.
If you cum first and you want to fool around some more, you have to clean up the cum and wash your hands. Make sure there is no cum under your finger nails. If you finger her, you don’t want cum under your finger nails because there is the risk of pregnancy.
Sex is just as much psychological as it is physical.If you lose your erection because you’re nervous or anxious, then tell her that it’s not due to her performance. It’s you and common when guys start havingsex. Relax cuddle, and you’ll probably get hard again.
Don’t try to imitate porn. Go slow. Be gentle. Communicate verbally and non-verbally. Ask for permission before you penetrate her. Tell her when you’re going to cum because she might not want to have cum in her mouth.
Relax, have fun, and go with the flow.
Sex complicates a relationship. This seems like a bad idea to test out her feelings. It will likely amplify the feelings that are already there. Likely your feelings will go deeper and he feelings will grow away from you and you’re setting up an ugly separation by adding sex to the mix.