I have no idea how to ride my guy

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1. hi! so what i can suggest is if u know how to twerk. Then u twerk on his dick. Basically just lean forward a bit and be on your knees, once u get into the more comfy position for u and him. You can start twerking basically. for the rhythm, when u get a hang of twerking on his dick, u will find the right rhythm for u and him

2. Don’t worry about “doing it right,” just focus on doing whatever feels good for you. 99% of the time, your pleasure will pleasure your partner as well.

3. One thing that really helped a lot is leg workouts to strengthen the muscles in your legs. It does make it a bit easier. Easiest is to be on your knees and lift yourself up and down. You could go directly up and down or more horizontal. You can put your hands above his shoulders and use it as leverage. And you can move your hips in a variety different ways to get different sensations. Practice makes perfect.

4. Beds are also pretty terrible for riding. Unless it’s an extremely firm bed it takes way more effort. You might be more successful on a floor or a couch.

5. The only tip I’d give is to simply enjoy yourself. Once you’re on him experiment moving in different ways. Find something that feels good to you. It will feel good to him too. But you’ll find the motions that work best for you and him. Once you have a couple motions play with tempo. Fast and slow. Her grinding her clit on me or moving super slow so I feel every detail are both amazing.

6. Don’t do up and down so much. Instead, take him to the hilt then grind your clit on him in a “churn the butter” circular motion. Then do kegel squeezes while he’s inside you. If you need a rhythm, move to Rihanna’s “Work” in your head. But change the rhythm and movement based on his reaction to the action. And eye contact is paramount.

7. How many times have you tried it? It’s definitely harder than it looks! I remember the first of one of the first times we had sex we tried the position and it just didn’t work lol.

   For about 10 years of our relationship it was a nice position we did occasionally and we liked it.

   Then literally about after 10 years my partner found *just* the right way of grinding back and forth where it really hit the spot and she could actually orgasm vaginally – it’s pretty much the only position she can! Now it’s absolutely our favourite position.

   But I couldn’t describe exactly what was different… I think it’s just experience and practice. Don’t be put off if it’s a bit rubbish the first few times.

   Only advice I can give is it’s more a back and forth than an up and down. Get him as deep as possible, then try grind yourself against his public bone, kinda?

8. Assuming you’re comfortable with your partner, how about you practice outside of sex? It’s not too difficult once you find the right position for your legs and hips. Find the most comfortable way and remember to ground yourself and use your hips, not your knees. You can brace yourself with your hands, elbows, your partners shoulders, etc. Squats may help, but short term, couches (your partner sitting upright) may work best for you. Couch riding is super easy, lazy, and intimate imo. I hated cowgirl until I mastered it. Now I can go Mach 5 for several minutes at a time, not that they can last that long with that skill 😂

9. I’ve found that mechanically, squatting is easier for bouncing than trying to bounce whilst on my knees. I can usually keep it up and a decent pace for a few minutes (I’m in terrible shape), then I drop down and grind awhile. Tbh, I’m not confident in my abilities in that position so we don’t do it often, but when we do, I try to appear in control like I know what I’m doing and attitude helps. 😏