Hey someone just replied to me after a year, saying “sorry I just came back on this account ik VERY late” it’s been 2 years, I moved on with my life. Im a male and she is a girl so I was surprised why she even texted back, I felt idk I don’t know what I felt. I replied saying “its okay things like left on read replies, is easy to forget about” or something along those lines. I then said “what’s up” the person didn’t reply for 10-20 minutes and I thought about the situation. I remember being left on read a lot and thought that I didn’t want this person in my life. Yes they have been nice to me but i have changed over those 2 years. I knew her for 2 years prior to the years she left me on read. I then decided to block her and I feel way more weird that before.
I feel restless and idk bad in a way, I thought about the fact that I’m not even a person who is special to other people. I try my best but in the end no one will ever actually care about me. I replied to them to be nice because I thought it was nice they replied back, but I also changed over the years and I wanted friends who value me. But maybe im just meant to be lonely forever.
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Why would you block someone who is uncommunicative, unless you truly don’t want to hear from them again under any circumstance?
It seems at least they made an effort to reach out, which is not nothing.
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You were correct. Having someone that will leave you on read and ghost you based on whatever happens to be going on in their life at that moment can be rough. If I had to guess, she was probably shooting out messages to guys she used to chat with before whatever is currently happening in her life. Leave her blocked, because guaranteed she will randomly reach out again in the future, and all the feelings will bubble up again for no good reason.
I’m sorry you’re lonely. It’s an awful feeling, and stuff like this can make you second guess people’s intentions for sure.