Edit: I realize this question can be misconstrued and that what might come off as pride or ego is actually a trauma coping mechanism (at least in my case). I (26f) told the guy (26m) that I was seeing that I didn’t want to play games and it lowered my attraction to him yet he continued to do so. Yet his friends continue to ask me to give him a chance bc he “genuinely” likes me but has issues after a faulty past relationship. Unfortunately that is not going to happen for me unless he suddenly grows up and faces his trauma and whatever this relationship put him through.
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Is that a thing? Either she likes you or she doesn’t.
This question makes zero sense.
a long time ago, I don’t have a lot of confidence, a bit of hubris and cockyness would have helped my chances a ton
In what? Do you feel you’re too good for her or something?
It was my trauma, but kudos if it was ego and pride for y’all.
She told me about it and said it was super unattractive. Made me rethink everything and changed me for the better
Thats a cope of losers
Never. I don’t have an ego, because I’m literally the most humble person I know. It probably stems from being right about everything.