Hi,
I’m in an open relationship with my boyfriend and we have a don’t ask don’t tell rule. He has been pretty sensitive about me seeing who he follows or me checking on his social media. In spite of this I check every now and then, and recently I saw he was following a minor. I know it could be nothing, however, I am concerned for the safety of the minor, even if it may be a cousin or something? I’m concerned on how to approach him considering our rules of we cannot have communication about these things. I have known him for 6 years and have never noticed a problem like this.
TLDR: How do I approach my boyfriend about following a minor?
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This is a potentially more extreme thing. Under the premise of being safe rather then sorry, I think it will be an exception to the rule to bring this up and see what he has to say about it. You’ll be able to tell pretty quick by how he reacts to it and his answer if you should really be concerned.
You can think of it like, with a regulated health provider, it’s “illegal” for them to disclose info unless it’s thought that person will be a harm to themselves or others of if they think there’s risk to a minor.
Act like your relationship goes by those rules
Weird that he’s secretive, have u made an issue about it in the past?
Kind of sketchy if not, if u have nothing to hide, why are they hiding?